Pros & Cons of Waiting Until Elul
Created by anonymous on 08/19/2012
1. My job would be secure
2. She wouldnt have school and work in Shanah Rishona.
3. We would both be more financially secure.
4. Removes the possibility of me idling for eight months in NY.
5. Removes issues with Mikva.
6. Able to jump right into our new life together without having to go through two transitions.
7. Removes issue of settling and then uprooting.
1. Waiting that long is emotionally difficult.
2. Can potentially create relationship issues.